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It has been a loooooong hot summer here in southern California. Yesterday was Halloween and it struck me as really something when half the students at my son’s school were wearing shorts and t-shirts. Nobody even needed a light jacket last night.
This morning, it finally started to rain and I noticed red leaves beginning to show on the tree outside my window. It is with a sigh of relief that I find myself happy for lousy weather.
I hope you are all enjoy autumn and making plans for a lovely holiday season.
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This Month's News of Interest:
The new November horoscopes were posted to the website a couple of weeks ago. Here are the links...
Taurus Astrology and Free November Horoscopes
Gemini Astrology and Free November Horoscopes
Cancer Astrology and Free November Horoscopes
Leo Astrology and Free November Horoscopes
Virgo Astrology and Free November Horoscopes
Libra Astrology and Free November Horoscopes
Scorpio Astrology and Free November Horoscopes
Sagittarius Astrology and Free November Horoscopes
Capricorn Astrology and Free November Horoscopes
Aquarius Astrology and Free November Horoscopes
Pisces Astrology and Free November Horoscopes
Astrology and Free November Horoscopes for all of the Zodiac Signs
If the new horoscopes do not show up, please click on the “refresh” button within your browser.
The free (generic) annual astrological overviews have been posted to the website...
Taurus 2015 Annual Horoscope
Gemini 2015 Annual Horoscope
Cancer 2015 Annual Horoscope
Leo 2015 Annual Horoscope
Virgo 2015 Annual Horoscope
Libra 2015 Annual Horoscope
Scorpio 2015 Annual Horoscope
Sagittarius 2015 Annual Horoscope
Capricorn 2015 Annual Horoscope
Aquarius 2015 Annual Horoscope
Pisces 2015 Annual Horoscope
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Taurus 2015 Horoscopes
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Cancer 2015 Horoscopes
Leo 2015 Horoscopes
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Scorpio 2015 Horoscopes
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Capricorn 2015 Horoscopes
Aquarius 2015 Horoscopes
Pisces 2015 Horoscope
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Aries 2014 Horoscopes
Taurus 2014 Horoscopes
Gemini 2014 Horoscopes
Cancer 2014 Horoscopes
Leo 2014 Horoscopes
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Quote of the Week:
It is unfortunate we can't buy many business executives for what they are worth and sell them for what they think they are worth. - Malcolm Forbes
If you should die before me, ask if you could bring a friend. -- Stone Temple Pilots
If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you. - Winnie the Pooh
Feature Article of the Week:
When my oldest son was fifteen years old, he had become quite arrogant and acted as if he was too cool for the rest of the family. It was fairly typical teenager behavior, but I did not like it. I had gotten to the end of my patience with him and laid into him about how lousy it felt to be treated that way. We ended up in a huge fight. He argued that he was not acting any different than normal and that I was just choosing to see things negatively. So, I laid out numerous examples of his selfish "me me me" behaviors without stopping to take a second breath. He hates it when I go off like that, but once he was ready to really talk, I came down off of my soapbox. He was close to tears. Apparently, I had hit a nerve. He confessed that his closest friends at school had been trying to tell him the same thing and he was not hearing them. Now he suddenly knew what it was they had been trying to say. He felt awful and began to make immediate changes in his behaviors towards others. He really hated the idea that he was hurting anyone's feelings by being cold and uncaring.
We talked a lot that night about how family sort of has to put up with each other. Family is always there for you. Family can embarrass you and you still have to acknowledge them in public. Family can and will scream at you until you finally get the point that you are being a jerk. You really do not have much choice over who your family is.
Friends, on the other hand, are a gift that you give yourself. Friends do not have to put up with your bad attitudes. Friends can kick you out of their life if you are not very nice towards them. Friends are not friends for very long if you are embarrassing them in public. Friends usually will not scream at you to get their point across. You handpick your friends to be something different and special. They are not quite the same as family.
In order to have friends, you have to be a friend. Do you listen to them? Do you care for them? Do you encourage them? You have to give a lot of yourself to be a good friend to someone. But in the end, you are the one who benefits the most. It is not about becoming some kind of martyr without any personal needs or thoughts towards your own well-being. It is more about nurturing a cherished relationship. That way, you have a dear friend to hang out with when your family is driving you bonkers. You have someone to laugh and play with. You have someone safe to share your hopes and dreams with. You have someone to talk to who is not going to blab to the rest of the family that you think your mom is an overbearing control freak or that your stepfather is not turning out to be your idea of what a dad ought to be.
Through our discussions that night, we were able to tap into what it was that made my son such a great guy to hang out with over the years. It was his ability to genuinely care about others and his intuitive compassion for everyone that made him more than just popular, but a real friend to all. He was the kind of teenager who always stuck up for the smaller kids and looked after the lost children. Once I reminded him of how he used to be, he realized how much of his focus had turned inwards towards himself instead of outwards towards those whom he cared about. He said that he had gotten so wrapped up in his new cool friends and in his public image at school that he had not understood what his old friends were talking about when they said he was cold and uncaring now. Turning his attention inwards had caused him to alienate many of his closest friends and family. Now, he suddenly felt very much alone in the world. Luckily, it had not been happening for very long before I blew up at him and made him look at it. He was able to quickly readjust back into the caring person he used to be and was able to feel loved and supported by his friends and family again. He passionately dove back into his friendships.
He learned that you can treat your brother like garbage and he will always be your brother and you will have to see each other at family gatherings whether you ever learn to be close or not. Friends on the other hand, can and will walk out of your life if you are cold and uncaring towards them. Family will eventually just shrug their shoulders and excuse your self-absorbed behavior as just the way you are, friends won't. I find it is the friendships that we love and nurture like family that last forever as if they were family. And, it is the family members that we love and nurture like friends that we form the strongest and closest bonds with.
They say that we learn our social skills from our siblings, but I am not so sure about that anymore. My stepmother was not a very nurturing personality type and my sister and I were not very close when we were younger. So through my girlfriends, I got that female connection that I just could not get from my family. My girlfriends became my surrogate family and taught me a lot about how to really be there for someone else. My sister and I have only recently become friends in the last few years. We are forming a different kind of bond compared to what we had when we were children. It is much better now. I would never treat my friends the way I used to treat my sister!
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